January 29, 2010

Five Things to Avoid While Seeing a Ukrainian Lady

Filed under: Relationships & Dating — admin @ 9:54 am

This article will be interesting for those guys who are going to find an Eastern European bride. Learn 5 most popular mistakes men make with russian brides. The first one is the most important; others are of about the same value.

1. Transferring her dollars. Do not send your money to someone who you met via dating agency. Remember that a true-hearted woman would not ask; she has enough self-esteem. And then, she has lived for more than twenty years without your “help”. Why would she need you now? Any Ukrainian girl who asks you for cash is just trying to scam you. A Russian girl does not even consider the two of you to be in a serious relationship until you have met in real life! Would you give cash to an American woman that you had just met? Remember about it. It is just not smart and sets you up for problems (and makes the women believe it is easy and gives them reasons for the same behavior).

2. Not interrogating. You are looking for a wife, not someone to simply pass the time. Russian women are serious (at least most of them) and they expect the same treatment. And one more thing, if you do not put her questions to learn more about her, her goals etc… she will soon figure out that you are not serious. Then she will leave you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are seriously willing to make a family, you should be putting her many questions! Not only ask a lot of questions, but ask them several times in various words, just to make sure if you get consistent answers By the way it's a great way to protect yourself from a scam!

3. Giving her wrong photos. Do not give her pictures of your house or other prized possession. Otherwise, you will attract the wrong type of lady. An honest lady from the former Soviet Union is more concerned about your heart than she is about your house and your car. If you focus on your attainments, she will possibly decide you are a shallow and insecure person. Concentrating on your possessions only seems to work on women from the US, the most shallow and windy women in the world! The former Soviet Union is not America, there is no need to impress these girls with attainments! Show them your personality, your preferences, how you think and feel and you'll get a thankful wife.

4. Not being prepared seriously for a visit. Did you know that that you'll have to visit your woman in her country before bringing her to America as your fiancee? Yes, it is the only possible way she can get a USA visa. A former Soviet Union lady, if she is serious, will need to meet you. You have to be ready to travel to her country in the future. A lady will generally give you about 6 months to tell her you will come. Then a few more months get ready. If you make her wait longer than this she will decide you are not serious and move on to a man she would think is more reliable! Just be ready emotionally and monetarily.

5. Not thinking about an emergency plan. It's a significant error! If you after all go to Russia, you never know what will happen. Be ready to get some unexpected results! No matter how many letters you have written to your woman or how many times you called her, once you see her in real life, things will become different. Possibly you both look at one another and understand it is not going to happen. Your backup plan will protect you in this case. And do not go to meet only one woman (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you will be visiting. Know their address and phone numbers. Then, if things don't work out, you will be able to go to another service and meet other women.

Well, that's it. Remember about these rules as you look for beautiful russian women and good luck!

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